Welcome to the MAKING OF A SOULMATE Virtual Series
Soulmates aren't "found", they're very intentional and nurtured over time.
WEEK ONE: Falling in Love With Yourself & Your Space
WEEK TWO: Elements of Healthy Partnership
WEEK THREE: Keeping the Love Alive
Cyndi (Swall) Lombardo & John Lombardo
Cyndi is a Coach, highly requested Speaker, Bliss Mentor and author of Bliss In the Wild: The Intentional Woman's Guide to Creating Everyday Joy. Yet before all that, Cyndi is a woman, a mom, a lover, a friend, body, mind and soul… and all the things that come with that. That’s important because she coaches from that place: real world, kinda' messy, super caffeinated problem solving in the wild!
John is a Marketing specialist and professional Videographer by trade, but is also an accomplished musician. He can be seen behind a Telecaster performing with Kristy Wyatt & the Moxie, a popular regional band, filling venues across the Midwest.
Together, they are a culmination of all the mistakes you can make in partnership and a shining example of what can happen when you learn from that shit and want it bad enough.
"Love is just a word until someone comes along and you both give it meaning"
With a mere 8 billion people on the planet, you're somehow supposed to find the one person who is destined to be your Soulmate. Anybody else find that needle-in-a-haystack concept more than a little daunting?
John has been married most of his life. Cyndi has been single and dating most of hers. Though their relationship backgrounds are vastly different, coming together has taught them some invaluable realities about what works and what doesn't. And it ain't always roses and chocolate. Being in a healthy partnership over the long haul is sometimes really hard. But if you're ready and willing to make the investment, it's oh-so-worth it!
Join John and Cyndi for a fun, enlightening and tactical journey exposing the truth about love and relationship. This series is designed to share insight and a new perspective on the truths about partnering no one wants to talk about.
Who would benefit from this course?
- Single and looking for a relationship
- Dating someone, but looking for deeper connection
- Not sure if you're ready to jump back into the pool, but exploring
- Married and wanting to regain the spark
- Newly out of a relationship and looking for the learning and healing
- Just curious what could possibly be new on this age-old topic
"A close friend or romantic partner with whom one has a unique deep connection based on mutual understanding and acceptance."
- Webster's Dictionary
Based on the most basic definitition of the term "Soulmate", it's clear that more than one person could fit that bill under the right circumstances.
You may know someone or been someone who has loved and lost and lived to love again.
True love is possible and magic is real.
You just have to know the rules and be prepared to step up your intimacy game.
FEBRUARY 26 -- MARCH 5 -- MARCH 12
4:30- 6 pm PT / 6:30-8 pm CT / 7:30-9 pm ET
Back when we were just friends 2010
Garden of the Gods early in our relationship 2021
Fast forward to our wedding 2024
Your enrollment gives you access to ALL 3 modules for just $97
What to Expect...
WEEK ONE: February 26
Falling In Love With Yourself & Your Space
We will be kicking off with a non-judgmental inventory of just getting REAL about what's up for you: what's coming up from your past, the physical contradictions that hold intimacy away from you and getting uber-honest with yourself about "being" the person you hope to attract.
Releasing the need to be in partnership to complete you- If you're only half a person, you're definitely not ready to be in a healthy coupledom. We'll talk about healing the wounded parts of yourself that keep looking for the red flags first (and thus magnifying them). All this leads us naturally back to the issue of worthiness and radical self-acceptance.
Know your own mental and emotional turn-ons so you can provide them for yourself before placing expectations on someone else to fill the voids where lack lives.
WEEK TWO: March 5
Elements of Healthy Partnership
Sometimes it may feel like we're stuck with a "type" when we're actually just repeating habitual patterns of limited thinking and rote behaviors. If you come through this period between relationships with the same thinking you entered with, you will have missed the sacred opportunity to re-evaluate what's really important to you. You're going to get very clear about what you want and how to be in true spiritual partnership, instead of getting hi-jacked by endorphins.
This module will explore the Love Languages, where they matter and why they may be dynamic. We quit making assumptions about the needs of others, how to use non-violent communication when your needs aren't being met, and why it's unrealistic to expect one person to meet all of those needs.
Finally, how to know during the tough times if this is a phase, a test or an exit.
WEEK THREE: March 12
Keeping the Love Alive
We are never at a choice-less moment, so if we're not growing, we're dying. We're here to remind you that you're allowed to be both a work in progress and a masterpiece, simultaneously. If you ever hear the phrase, "You're not the person I married.", your response should be, "God, I hope not!" Healthy couples will evolve and grow and morph on the regular. They stay curious about the world. They explore new interests. And it's perfectly acceptable not to do everything together. Having separate interests, in addition to your common experiences, gives you something to share when you come back together.
You'll gain tips for handling stress, knowing each others hot buttons (and not pushing them) and simple ways to nurture the love you both so deeply deserve.
